But it really, really shouldn’t. Plus, there is a nice trick to get you relaxed. Most women who have tried it have had a bad experience, or just won’t even consider trying it. Feeling pleasure and reaching orgasm take focus. Joellen is a writer, speaker, researcher and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. You can find many guides on anal sex here on quora (including some from me). Many toys are designed precisely for anal pleasure and orgasm.
Anal stimulation for a woman. Extra lubrication will make sure everything runs smoothly. You wouldn’t penetrate your girl without foreplay (at least most of the time), so inserting anything into your body before you’re ready to is not a good idea. This may feel strange at first, but it shouldn’t hurt. Before you get started, you obviously need to clean up, so opt to take a shower together. You know how it’s basically impossible to tickle yourself? this isn’t the same, but trying anal foreplay out on your own is informed by a similar mindset. Start by voiding your bowels.
Of course pregnancy is not the issue. The anus is a receptive organ, but it needs to be courted with care.